Thursday, July 21, 2011

Who's up next?

I'm loving summertime and its wonderful greens, heat, humidity, rainstorms, fireflies, flowers, breezes, and sunsets. I want to soak up the beautiful outdoors. This makes me really lazy with domestic duties like cooking and laundry. I really am a jungleprincess and don't have any desire to be a domestic goddess. I do like having a clean house, but I'm hoping my kids will soon take over the domestic chores which will allow me to sit outside all day and make wishes on dandelions. Ahhh!

So I've got this quandary. My boy is three and still wearing diapers. I haven't even tried potty training because until now, circumstances have not been right for successful potty training (I do the one-day method, put them straight in underwear, and it's wonderful but a lot of work--setting them up for success means that you're stuck at home for about a week). He started showing interest a year ago at age two, but we were preparing for a cross-country move and didn't know where we'd live, etc. I held him off and figured we'd try in the early fall after we were settled in our new place. Surprise! We didn't get "settled" for almost eight months. I thought I'd try then, and I gave a half-hearted attempt for a few hours one morning, but he was resistant, and I didn't want a battle. Besides, I was about to take a 2-week trip with the kids. Not a good time for something new! After we returned, D was working nights for a month, so I decided to try after that was over. Then we found out we'd be taking another trip soon. No good! So after we got back from the other trip, I thought the time might be right. Then we decided to take another trip. The Training Event was put off yet again. We are now back from that trip, and I could go ahead and set aside a day to do it, but as mentioned above, I'm feeling lazy. Oh, what to do?

My other issue is, Chiquitita is showing the signs that she's ready now. Squeak potty-trained before age two, so I'm not surprised. Do I let my baby learn first, or my 3-year-old, or do I just say no to being stuck at home when I really just want to get out of the house?

I think this looks much more appealing than sitting inside near the potty!