Thursday, October 07, 2010

Phoenix Fun!

 These are old photos from our trip to Phoenix for D's graduation in June. Better late than never!

 
 We are all thrilled about D's accomplishment. And I have this to say--he was the hardest-working student in his whole school. I know because I saw it all. Way to go, babe!!


 My brother Bry drove up from Tucson. He and his family were so helpful and supportive during our time in AZ. I love the cut-off heads and my kids' expressions in this photo.

 D's parents also came (also a great support to us during med school) and D was hooded by his dad. So fun!

 D with his study buddies Martin and Dustin. They were a lifesaver--thanks, dudes!

 Reenacting a study session??


Can't quite come up with a caption for this photo...



Me pretending like I earned a little bit of the glory

 I love Pip's little ruddy cheeks. It was so hot!

 We went to a fancy dinner. We got to take our cute little baby because she does not like to be separated from her mami. It made me feel extra fancy to leave during dinner to breastfeed.


 Study buddies and wives Celeste and Melinda. What great gals! Thanks for the fun times, friends!



 We visited our wonderful neighbors Kris, Sahana, and Samik. We miss them so much!

 
 We stayed with our favorite Lora who we also miss dearly. We loved being together and catching up. The kids got to see their lovely Siri again, and we hope to see the rest of the clan next time we're in town.

 Pip slept in Kaj's room and emptied his drawers into the pack n play. Thanks for sharing, Lora and fam!


 We also got to visit Sid and Bobbi, our Phoenix family. Bobbi taught me how to make yogurt, Lebanese-style.

Tuesday, October 05, 2010

Quote of the year

"Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication"
Leonardo da Vinci

quoted by President Dieter F. Uchtdorf in this talk--words that were truly meant for me at this time in my life! What a wonderful, inspired man!

Friday, October 01, 2010

Migration and Reproduction

I have so many blog posts swimming around in my head that I would someday like to share. I'd like to blame my circumstances for my inability to be organized, but when I think about it, it's probably just a personal problem.

But anyway, here's something I've been thinking about--migration and reproduction. That pretty much sums up what I've done for the past five years. Maybe add in a little bit of competition and education and vacation, but mostly I've been in what we like to call "survival mode" for what feels like a really long time. Moving, moving, moving, new baby, moving, moving, new baby, moving, new baby, moving... So I thought about other migratory animals--whales, geese, salmon, etc. And I settled on the monarch butterfly for my personal analogy. Monarch butterflies spend their entire existence in migration and reproduction, yet they are beautiful and amazing creatures.




They don't care that they weren't able to plant a garden last year (or this year!) or start cloth diapering again since the move (since it still feels like we're moving) or complete a runner's quilt made of race t-shirts or train for and compete in a Half-Ironman or write a book they've been dying to write or even finish that mission scrapbook (truly the eternal project!!)... I have all these IDEAS!! I'm working on being a finisher. Those monarchs, though--they are content in their existence of migration and reproduction and we admire them anyway!
Aren't they amazing?? They travel over 2,000 miles...

Saturday, September 18, 2010

"Was?"

A few weeks ago I overheard some people talking. Something like, "It was a wonderful summer, wasn't it?" "Oh, yes, it certainly was." And I thought, "'Was?' Has the summer already gone?" SAD! The trees are still mostly green, but the nights and mornings are cooler which can only mean one thing--it's time to move our basil plant inside. Oh, how we love having fresh basil (thank you to the wonderful previous tenants here who left it for us!!). Anyway, despite the uncertainty about our housing situation, we've really enjoyed Michigan this summer. I love the humidity and the gorgeous green trees. Feels like home. My hair and skin can breathe again after so long in a dry climate. Ahh!!

The latest on our living situation is that WE ARE SQUATTERS!! We are living in a bank-owned house and paying rent to nobody! I used to think that D and I were pretty talented at scrounging (dumpster diving, taking stuff from people's garbage piles, getting toiletries for free, gratefully accepting everyone's hand-me-down clothes and furniture, etc.) but I feel like we've reached a whole new level here. Now I just need to figure out how to get utilities for free... I'm kidding--kind of. Our rental house was foreclosed on September 2. I was able to finally get the bank to talk to me before it happened (I had tried before but they wouldn't), so we were assured that we would not be out on the street--we would have at least 30, probably 60+ days before we'd have to leave. The bank hasn't asked us to pay rent. So we are doing fine, still not unpacking much more than the bare minimum. We don't know if we will stay here for a short time or a long time, but we're enjoying the neighborhood--we really have great neighbors.

I'm running with the triple jogger 4-5 times per week, YEAH!! Still trying to figure out how to lose those last two pregnancy pounds. Let me know if you have any advice (and if you tell me to stop eating chocolate chips, forget it!!)

Some recent shots of my peeps:


Our sweet baby

the aftermath of Mud Day

Squeak and "Baby Julinna"

Goldilocks--what lovely curls!
More happy Mud Day faces

Friday, August 20, 2010

Pride in my ride

Seven years ago, I bought my dream car. Subaru Impreza. Dark Blue. So fun, so fast. I felt so cool!

Later that year, I met my dream guy. So caballero, so talented, so athletic, so hard-working, so fun. He was everything on my list. I married him.





My dream guy had a dream--to help humanity by being a doctor.


I took one for the team and sold my dream car. We bought your grandma's old car--an Oldsmobile Cutlass Ciera. So practical, so dependable. Not quite as cool.

Bonus: three car seats fit in the back seat!

Suddenly we had three little ones and I knew our days of fitting in a sedan were coming to an end. We were going to become a mini-van fam! I wasn't excited about it. I don't love mini-vans. "Ugh!" was all I could think when I thought about driving around in one. Then I saw this (thanks, Cami!):


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ql-N3F1FhW4&feature=player_embedded

And I thought, "OK, I can do this!"

Then my dream guy had a different dream. He wanted to tow our stuff across the country in a trailer. A mini-van was out. We were both so relieved! We bought a Chevy Suburban. So big, so cool, so fun! The pride in my ride is back, ohhh yeahhh!




Sunday, August 01, 2010

El Diluvio and other adventures

I love adventure! These past few months have been quite an adventure--but we're still surviving, so that's great! So shortly after my last post, we moved into a suite in the hotel. D had made friends with the manager, so he gave us a $250 suite for $50/night. SWEET! Finally, we had a door we could close, so we didn't all have to go to bed at the same time. It had been exceedingly difficult to get our munchkins to nap or go to sleep at night, so they'd stay up until we fell in bed exhausted at midnight, and then they were awake early in the morning and not getting good naps... well, how can anyone hope for good behavior under those circumstances? We were so grateful to have a bit more space, a mini-kitchen, a fridge, and two rooms. Ahhhh...

D and I were frantically looking for someplace, anyplace to live. D had started residency and we were homeless. We had lowered our expectations from hoping for a 3 bed/2 bath house with a garage and fenced yard for under $1,000 (and a short-term lease) to settling on a 2 bedroom apartment, maybe even a 1 bedroom place with no garage and no yard. Seriously, we were getting desperate. I was in contact with four different realtors and scouring Craigslist and calling local Mormons--basically trying every venue possible. Then one day a place fell into our laps. A 3 bed/2 bath house with a nice fenced yard and a garage, five minutes from the hospital AND a month-to-month lease!! For $1,100! Immediately available!! We moved in!!! D worked really hard the whole weekend (including on his birthday) heaving boxes around and helping me organize a bit. We were loving the stability!

The plot thickens... Less than a week later, we got our first houseguests. My sweet friend Chalene and her husband were in town looking for housing also. I had to apologize for not being more hospitable, but we hadn't unpacked more than the basics, so I didn't have a bed or even bedding for them--but I did have two clean towels! They knew ahead of time and brought an air mattress, etc. Chalene's husband Kelly then became our new roommate since he was starting his new job before the whole family could get into a house in the area.

The following week, we were sitting in the living room in the evening watching a wonderful rainstorm. Oh, how I love a good rainstorm! I was talking about it with the munchkins--I was in heaven! Se fue la luz (the power went out) and I was REALLY in heaven, remembering every day of my mission when we didn't have electricity. Then Kelly said, "Wow, it looks like there's about a foot of rain in the street in front of the house." "Neat!" I thought. Kelly said, "Hmm, your neighbor's pulling leaves and stuff out of the drain out there." "What a nice guy," I thought. Then I thought, "I wonder if the basement is flooding," because I've heard that happens here. I headed downstairs with Squirt on my hip. As soon as I stepped into the basement, my feet flew out from under me and I landed on my back, fortunately with my baby still in my arms. She was not hurt, but we were wet--four inches of water had come up through the drain in the basement. D was at work, but Kelly was able to help me get all of our important stuff (computer and many boxes) away from the water. And here's a miracle--Squeak and Pip stayed upstairs when I asked them to!! So when D got home that night, we set to work eating all the ice cream up so it wouldn't go to waste, but honestly, I thought the power would come back on sometime during the night. Nope! Nor did it come on the next day, or the next night! We went for over 50 hours without electricity IN THIS COUNTRY!! Can you believe it? All the while, the basement remained flooded, because the sump pump (which gets the water out) wouldn't work without power. It could've been so much worse though--nothing important got ruined, we hardly had any food in the fridge, so not much spoiled, and we still had running water. With little kids, if I had to choose, I'd take running water over electricity any day. AND we got to use D's awesome lantern at night.

So... after the power came back on, we cleaned up the mess and decided to organize things a bit differently--you know, only plastic bins on the floor, leave the computer tower and cords on the table, etc. We were planning not to unpack most of our stuff in this house because we want to buy a place in the next few months--D had fortunately suggested (before the flood) leaving a bunch of boxes upstairs in one of the bedrooms--so the situation was WAY better than it could've been. Then, the next week, we had to go for five days without internet/phone service because, despite my best efforts, the company went back on their word (told me it would be down for one day, not five).

The next week I checked up on a piece of mail we received that was intended for the owners of this house and found out some interesting information: this house is in forclosure--it was apparently filed in March and the redemption period ends September 2 at which point the bank owns the house and the tenants (that's us!) are evicted. Of course, the landlords did not disclose this info when we moved in and sent them the rent check. AWESOME!!! Needless to say, we are on the hunt for another place again, but now we're trying to get the loan poo in order so we can just buy a place and not have to move again for FOUR YEARS!

And here we are in the present. I am so thrilled to be alive and healthy! D enjoys his job! My babies are so fun! We are loving Michigan! We have many wonderful friends so far, including some Spanish-speakers (who would imagine that we'd find a little Latino community in Michigan!?)! We love running with the triple jogger! D found us a beautiful red microfiber couch for FREE! We love the parks here! There's a CVS around the corner! Life is great, really!

Sunday, June 27, 2010

The mother of all moves

This is our SEVENTH move in FIVE years. You'd think by now that we'd have learned a little something. Oh, but we have learned plenty!! Lots of learning going on all the time (it continues even now!) Here's something funny--I was actually looking forward to this move. Finally I wasn't pregnant and moving. Finally I wasn't trying to juggle a brand new baby and moving. Finally I was feeling a little bit organized, a little bit in control going into a move. Ah, the irony! Here's what I'm looking forward to: being able to look BACK at this time in our lives and laugh and enjoy the memory.

To recap the last several weeks: traveled to Phoenix for D's graduation from med school!!, purchased a car that would be able to tow our stuff from Utah to Michigan, purchased a trailer that would hold our stuff, packing frenzy, cleaning frenzy, cross-country drive with three little kids in two vehicles including one big trailer, one car break-down en route, lots of hotels along the way, arrival to the land of big, beautiful trees, car break-down after arrival, search for suitable short-term housing, D started orientation, more fruitless searching for housing, five people (including 3 kids who NEED naps and 2 adults who'd LOVE naps) in one hotel room for a week and a half... Well, we're climbing the walls here, and there's no end in sight. The good news is, we're all healthy. We're also hoping to end our homelessness soon!!

Thursday, May 06, 2010

More of Squirt


We love that she sucks her thumb!
Thanks so much for the lovely photos, Ann!!

Tuesday, May 04, 2010

We love getting out!!



My kids are really fun, really cute, really charming--especially when we're out. Just like their mother, they love getting out. So today we went to the supermarket and it was very exciting for everyone because I was picking up some Grape Nuts and a canning funnel for myself (and a few other odds and ends), and Squeak and Pip were both getting a balloon at the end (because it's free). And Squirt got to look at her favorite person during the whole excursion. Excitement all around.

As we were waiting for the balloons, an older gentleman began admiring Squeak and Pip. And they just turned on the charm. "Hi!" said my little cherub, Pip. Squeak greeted him and started hamming it up. Pip called him "Bis-baba" (that's how they say "Great-Grandpa"). It turns out that this nice man has six girls, twenty-five grandchildren, and twenty-six great-grandchildren (so far). After a few minutes of conversation, he left. Pip wondered where he had gone, but I was busy getting the balloons, so I didn't see. Suddenly he returned with two candy bars he had just purchased. Oh, wow, and my favorite kind, too! He handed one to each of them--they were so excited. Balloons AND Butterfingers. What a party!

Monday, April 12, 2010

Spirited!

So far it's three for three. Can't say I mind, I mean, I feel like I've been really blessed to have three spirited babies. What would I do with a child who just sat there doing nothing? How would I know if my baby was happy, sad, hungry, satisfied, excited, tired...? Anyone who has a spirited child can attest that they're pretty fun--extremely happy, loud, excited, busy, and just into everything (figuratively and literally). Also very expressive with their emotions (whether deliriously happy or so very sad)--there is no mystery about how they're feeling. You just don't get that dead-pan look from a spirited child.

My fabulous firstborn came and I discovered that she was spirited... She was such a happy little thing, especially when she was with her favorite person. Then my wonderful number two came, and I worried that he would fade into the background because his sister's personality was so flamboyant. No need to worry; he keeps right up with her. But I really worried about number three, with two older, passionate siblings--would she survive? But my fears are allayed. She is as spirited as the others. She is the happiest baby in the world when she's with her favorite person (which is most of the time, thank goodness!), but if something upsets her, watch out! There's no better word to describe her cry than LOUD.

So a girl came over the other day with a baby--same age as mine. I got all in her face (the baby's face) and started talking, trying to make her laugh... NO REACTION! I couldn't believe it--this never happens to me with my kids! I thought maybe it was me--since I'm not the mom, she didn't want to smile at me. Then the other mom said, "Yeah, I try talking to her and getting her to smile, but mostly she just looks at me." WOW, am I grateful for spirited babies!!!

I'm also grateful for talented friends... like my dear friend who did a photo shoot of our littlest munchkin. I'll post more photos later (it's hard work trying to keep up with these three!!!)
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